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soon2be_mrsd Posted: Wed, Mar 15 2017 9:55 AM

Ok who wants to talk about moving to another place?

 

I have two options in my mind - Please add any ideas or comments about what you might like- I'm happy to help lead the charge to save our friendships and knowledge!

 

 

1.  Another forum.  I don't really know where though.    I suggested Reddit in the other thread because I've been participating there recently and the format is pretty easy to use.  though it would just be one big forum called Ovusoft rather than individual areas for TTC, TTA, Charting in Peri, Parenting Questions -- different groups could start different threads - I think there might be a way to automatically start chat threads once a month.  And of course you could start any thread you want for individual questions.  There is a way to add labels too that might help sort questions.  I don't anything about formating or modding - I know it's possible though.  And I could reach out to some resouces that might know.   This could be fully public (anyone can find and post), private (people can find and read but need permission to post), or more like hidden (approval to join)

 

2.  Facebook Private Group - private groups are hidden from your list of "groups" so your friends can't see that you are part of a group called Ovusoft.  This would obviously be less anonymous and as we all know posting on facebook isn't the same as posting on a forum as far as back and forth comments/monthly check in type threads.

 

 

Option 3 would be for those who are on Fertility Friend or interested in paying for access to the forums, we can find each other over there.  I'd be willing to join up there if that is what a group wants to do.

Me: 35   DH: 33

TTC #1 since February 2015

Diagnosis: ovulation disorder, pelvic adhesions, tubal dysfunction:  4 medicated cycles with femara + FSH injections (2 timed intercourse and 2 IUI) - all BFN.  We are done with treatments now (Nov 2016).  Trying naturally for a bit while exploring other paths to parenthood.

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murillo replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 9:59 AM

Well I'm one of the handful of people in this world without Facebook, so... But I also recognize I am not a huge contributor to this site, more of a "lurker" and occasional contributor Flowers Still sad to see it go. The thing is, we can keep exchanging somewhere else, but lose the priceless archived threads here Sad

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NorthStar replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 9:59 AM

OvaGraph and MyFertilityCharts both have forums and they are free. Actually just looked at MyFertilityCharts Message Board and it doesn't look like it has nice organization. I guess I will be utilizing OvaGraph. 

So much will be lost here! :(

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murillo replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 10:20 AM

OvaGraph seems most similar to Ovusoft. (Not surprising.) I seem to recall someone from Ovusoft not being able to post any messages with that brand name, though.

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MellieC replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 10:21 AM

I do!!  

I am in for any or all of those.

I also am one of the 15 people left that doesn't use facebook, but honestly it is probably just time to get with it  Stick out tongue and that may be the easiest to start with since we can get it up and running lickity split?  I may vote for this one because I was already debating getting with it so that I could join some other private groups.

I have been spending this morning loading my data into both fertility friend and ovagraph to see which one I like better.  I am fine to move to either of those also.  I am good to pay to use those forums also. 

Thank you for leading the charge MrsD, I will follow wherever we go Flowers

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MellieC replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 10:29 AM

bah haha.  So I remembered I set up a facebook account and linked it with my sister 4 or 5 years ago (but I only friended her before I abandoned).  I got myself reset and logged on - I have like 150 friend requests!?!  Ack!!

Anyhow - I am now ready to go for a facebook group Big Smile

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Peony replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 10:58 AM

I am interested, too!!

I use FB, also signed up to the Ovagraph a year ago (but do not use it), and I also use FF and CoundownToPregnancy. So I am in to whichever is more convenient or best for the most of the ladies here.

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Badger4Life replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 11:05 AM

I have fb, but even with private groups, I still don't like having my real named linked to fertility-related stuff.

I joined What to Expect when I was pregnant, and members can make their own groups. There are a lot of people there for fertility-related info (TTC, TTA, infertility, pregnancy), but my favorite group is the Hot Topics group.

This board is way more knowledgable on fertility topics than WTE and other sites are, so I think it would be best for us to stick together.

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soon2be_mrsd replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 11:30 AM

Badger- I agree... this is a very knowledgeable group.  I think we need to move together if we can so we can share the knowledge!   WTE sounds interesting I'll go check it out.  Yes, I agree that with Facebook your real name is out there.  There are definitely some on the board who I feel like I know more than others and would be fine knowing my real info.  Others -- I have seen their name around and know they contribute so it's probably ok, but I don't know them personally so I understand hesitations.  Like you for example- I have seen you around and I know you contribute and have been a long term member with lots of knowledge (both Ttc and tta) but we've never personally connected or been on the same group -- I'd be fine "facebooking" with you but I would not be offended if you came to a different conclusion given our "distance"

murillo- I think your post was super sweet-- thank you for being sensitive and aware of fertility issues!

 

 

I think many would go facebook from here and that's cool but I don't want to disclude people (esp those who don't use the platform at all) and I feel like if we had a facebook group for people who picked that route and we also tried to move to another forum -- it wouldn't be as cohesive.  Some don't have time to keep up 2 groups and if the facebook is arguably more convenient for quick check ins then maybe those people would drop off from the forum group.  Just some thoughts.

 

 

I don't love the idea of Ovagraph forums because -- while they do seem easy enough to use and have lots of forum options -- they seem to have been pretty rude, negative, and alienating towards "us ovusofters" in the past.  Maybe they don't deserve to have us now!

Me: 35   DH: 33

TTC #1 since February 2015

Diagnosis: ovulation disorder, pelvic adhesions, tubal dysfunction:  4 medicated cycles with femara + FSH injections (2 timed intercourse and 2 IUI) - all BFN.  We are done with treatments now (Nov 2016).  Trying naturally for a bit while exploring other paths to parenthood.

Natural BFP 12/17/16!   Ectopic Loss 5w5d  on 12/26/16

Feb 2017: Starting IVF Cycle:  Antagonist Protocol with 375IU Gonal F and 75IU Menopur, Added Ganirelix day 6.  Stimmed for 9 days total.   24 eggs retrieved, 17 mature, 14 fertlized, 10 made it to blast and were frozen!  Transfer in April\

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Cliff1016 replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 12:13 PM

I, personally, would find fbook easiest and most convenient but i'll happily move wherever you guys go (that's free ;D)!

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SoccerGirl replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 12:20 PM

Thanks for taking the initiative MrsD! 

I will follow wherever!  FB is an easy option and I would do it but it would be nicer to have the posting format of a forum.  If that is what we did would we just search ovusoft on FB to find the secret group?  That could help members find us who don't notice the site is closing down before it is too late.  I don't know much about reddit but that sounds nice or starting a group on WTE like badger4life.  The idea of doing both sounds like a good option and we could see where it goes from there.

One thing I think is worth mentioning is that a site like WTE is also very pregnancy oriented.  I went to the site and a pregnant belly was in my face.  That and FB profile pics with kids in it could be a very valid upsetting trigger for those who do not have LC.  

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tmonee replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 12:49 PM

I'm not sure I could join again at OvaGraph (the new TCOYF) because they banned me for posting links when our members found themselves there and asked questions like "Where are all my charts and past posts" "Where is DJ?" They acted like they didn't know what anyone was talking about, so I posted links saying where we were. If they banned me by IP, then I'm done. If they only banned my username, I may be able to create a new account. I don't like their software and I don't particularly like the lingo they use. Would they welcome us as we wouldn't take any of their stupid charting advice?

I won't pay for FF or other sites because I'm not even charting anymore, I just come around to help you guys.

Facebook I'm not too keen on. But I'm super private and I know others aren't as much.

Whatever we do, let's not tie it to the name Ovusoft. They're abandoning us, we don't need to have their name following us around wherever.

Maybe we should start a group conversation with everyone in this thread and the thread started by Gabelle and we could at least exchange email addresses.Then we could save the message out before the end and we'd still be able to get in contact with one another if we don't have things figured out by March 31.

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orangekitty replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 12:54 PM

I'd love to move as a cohesive group somewhere but facebook isn't going to work for me. I'm planning to deactivate my account in the near future and I'm applying for a job that won't allow me to have an account for security reasons. Of course I understand if that's easiest for the majority!

I've used the Ovagraph forums before and... blech. The mods are SHOCKINGLY uninformed, though they seem nice enough. They're just not as educated as the wonderful mods here. Plus the software does some weird things, like basing ovulation on the lowest temp in your FP, despite the fact that not everyone has that pre-O dip and sometimes the rise after it doesn't fit the rules for O. I've downloaded the Kindara app to try it again, fingers crossed. I do agree that on any of the boards I've perused, the women here are definitely the most educated. More than once  I've found myself uncharitably rolling my eyes at the misinformation being perpetuated in other forums.

Wherever I go I'll stick with my same username, so if you see me somewhere please feel free to message me and reintroduce yourself! It will be nice to see a familiar "face"!

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gabelle1995 replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 2:40 PM

With regard to option 1, what about a community in Google+ ? It could be private, moderated, and organized into "topics" (so not one big forum). https://support.google.com/plus/answer/6320395?hl=en&ref_topic=6320361

I'm on Facebook but hate posting private things there even in private groups.

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padfootchick87 replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 3:31 PM

I will go wherever. Just let me know where!

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Cm262 replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 3:37 PM

I prefer Facebook for ease but I will go wherever. I have found soooo much helpful info in the archives here :( I'm devestated sndbkind of wishing I could download them all somehow. :( 

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Cm262 replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 4:15 PM

Google + doesn't seem like a bad idea. I'll keep the same name as well. Ah so sad at this news! This site has meant so much during my pregnancies and the in betweens. 

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soon2be_mrsd replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 4:44 PM

I like the Google + format!

My google is tied in to my full name/personal details - which is ok if the forum we create is private.  I don't know if everyone has a google ID?  You can always create one for this forum if you didn't want it linked to your personal stuff.  I'd prefer to do something invite-only/non-public 

Me: 35   DH: 33

TTC #1 since February 2015

Diagnosis: ovulation disorder, pelvic adhesions, tubal dysfunction:  4 medicated cycles with femara + FSH injections (2 timed intercourse and 2 IUI) - all BFN.  We are done with treatments now (Nov 2016).  Trying naturally for a bit while exploring other paths to parenthood.

Natural BFP 12/17/16!   Ectopic Loss 5w5d  on 12/26/16

Feb 2017: Starting IVF Cycle:  Antagonist Protocol with 375IU Gonal F and 75IU Menopur, Added Ganirelix day 6.  Stimmed for 9 days total.   24 eggs retrieved, 17 mature, 14 fertlized, 10 made it to blast and were frozen!  Transfer in April\

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drdonna replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 4:51 PM

I too am interested in following wherever. I know I don't post a whole lot, but l learn so much by reading others' experiences and it helps to feel "connected".  I am on Kindara under my same username but the forum format and mods here are priceless.

I'm not keen on FB as I have a hard time keeping track of various groups there. 

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RunnerJulia replied on Wed, Mar 15 2017 5:59 PM

I'm also interested. I'm on FB and I'm on Kindara, but I will go where ever!! 

 

 

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